MAN TROUBLE

Do i need this?

Published on October 7, 2006 By KISIRU In Blogging

Ok.I have a question to ask.Why would a man keep making dates with a girl and then keep cancelling them on the last minute? What is wrong with this man?!
I have to tell you,i am pissed.This guy keeps flirting with me and setting up dates with me but he never keeps any of them! The day before yesterday we had this lovely conversation by sms and he(on his own accord,without any hinting from me decided to make a date with me for yesterday and i thought finally,this one will come through.Yesterday i woke up full of life in aticipation,took extra care in choosing what to wear etc etc.I went trough by morning business in a smiley mood and then as the evening drew nearer i receive an sms.You guessed it,he is too busy at work,he wont make it,could we talk later.Do i need to tell you that he didnt call that later either? Am pissed!
So, i have made a decision.He can go rot in H...- wherever sinners go after death! But am not satisfied, i feel a need to get back at him.I thought about calling him and telling him off on phone but then i thought its a bit juvenile and i might end up getting that stuck potato feeling in my throat and crying(GOD FORBID).Then i thought about just ignoring him from now on and decided that i will still do that but i need to do something to make him pay!
Ok now am ranting and raving...but seriously, What would you do if you were me?

Comments

Xythe

on Oct 07, 2006

Why would a man keep making dates with a girl and then keep cancelling them on the last minute?

I think you have your answer:

You guessed it,he is too busy at work,he wont make it

You hardly have any relationship with this guy, so why do you refer to it as "man trouble"?

So, i have made a decision.He can go rot in H...- wherever sinners go after death! But am not satisfied, i feel a need to get back at him

This is as juvanile as you make him out to be.

Get over it and move on, there are more fish in the sea.

Martimus

on Oct 07, 2006

I think you should call him and tell him how you feel. Just be direct and don't worry about whether you get emotional or not.

Sorry for commenting - considering I don't know you - but I know that I am having a lot of trouble with my relationship and I wanted to see what was going on with someone elses relationship problems for some perspective.

Gene Nash

on Oct 07, 2006

I think you should call him and tell him how you feel. Just be direct and don't worry about whether you get emotional or not.

If for some reason he's purposefully jerking you around for his own entertainment, he'd really love this! If you want to get his jackass balls off again, go ahead and call. I'm sure he'll treasure it for a long time.

but seriously, What would you do if you were me?

After waiting a couple months, have a male friend put on a mask, run up from out of nowhere, kick Mr. Jackass in the balls, then run off as fast as he can.

Just make sure to never breath a word about it. Revenge has a way of biting back.

Arlya

on Oct 07, 2006

I have to admit this made me giggle out loud.

Thanks.

feisty_in_ohio

on Oct 07, 2006

Do not call him.
Do not make another date with him. A simple, "thank you for asking but I already have plans" will do nicely.
Do not give him any explainations - you do not owe him anything - nothing at all.

What ever the problem is - let him have it all to himself.
Gene Nash's suggestion did make me giggle too!

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