OK maybe am abit ignorant but i live in Africa and our T.V channels have been on the United States elections since yesterday and am getting abit worked up.Ok there's nothing wrong with keeping us updated but must we(read i for those who do not agree) be subjected to this torture? i for one do not care who gets into congress,democrats or republicans what good will either serve us ??The United States has never done anybody any good for the simple sake of showing some humanity and we all know it...

ok,its my birthday again today.It doesnt seem possible that a whole year has passed since the last one.i was kinda looking foward to this one,am not sure why but now that the day is almost done i begin to question myself and i cant come up with a plausible reason why i would be looking foward to any of my birhdays and more so this one. Thing is my birhdays are always either full of disappointment or full of pain and every so often both.Ok so am twenty five yeras old,gosh am getting pretty ol...

Ok,we have another long weekend holiday as from tomorow which is friday til Tuesday and knowing myself am going to end up drunk for more than half of that time.I dont think i could call myself much of a drinker,infact i can go a whole week even two or three without touching any alcohol but when i do i somehow seem to always end up drunk. There is a pal's birthday bash tomorrow and i know as much as am trying to convince myself that i will stay on fresh juice i know i will crave the sweet sou...

And i dont even mean physical fighting.The other day i was caught in a girl fight and man was it nasty! It made me come to one conclusion,girls fight real dirty.They will say the nastiest things they can come up with,both untrue and true(in this case those things that are true but should never be said and especially not aloud).So these two girls,mark you they are supposed to be friends, had this tiny arguement that nobody can exactly point out where it started and before you know it thay were...

And i dont even mean physical fighting.The other day i was caught in a girl fight and man was it nasty! It made me come to one conclusion,girls fight real dirty.They will say the nastiest thigs they can come up with,both untrue and true(in this case those things that are true but shold never be said and especially not aloud.So these two girls,mark you they are supposed to be friends, had this tiny arguement that nobody can exactly point out where it started and before you know it thay were bo...

I overheard a conversation somewhere and these two guys were talking about women from the country and those from the City and the arguement was whether or not girls from the city are wife material at all and i was pretty offended.What do they mean by wife material? is a wife something thats manufactured in some factory or something? City girls are supposedly high maintainance,that i gathered to mean that they need alot of expensive things to be happy,thats a myth not fact.I personally dont ...

Ok.I have a question to ask.Why would a man keep making dates with a girl and then keep cancelling them on the last minute? What is wrong with this man?! I have to tell you,i am pissed.This guy keeps flirting with me and setting up dates with me but he never keeps any of them! The day before yesterday we had this lovely conversation by sms and he(on his own accord,without any hinting from me decided to make a date with me for yesterday and i thought finally,this one will come through.Yesterd...

The thing is, i have this friend of mine,a girlfriend,and yesterday she said something to me that i was not able to react to because i wasnt sure which was the best or even the appropriate kind of reaction to give. We have this mutual friend who is male and has several brothers,all younger than him.Now,usually girls positively swoon over him,well,lets call him Tim.Girls are always falling inlove with Tim. Tim has this brother,the last born brother actually who is like 20years old or somethin...

Ever woken up with injuries you cannot explain? ok in my case it was the morning after a few glasses of red wine-EVEN SO...i was not that intoxicated,infact i was quite alright.i got home,had my supper and watched Adrian Monk...Ok lets start at the beginning I was home that morning doing nothing much ,well,i was watching the Godfather movies from 1-3 and having a good time at it,then one of my male pals with whom i have been having certain issues with called to say we should meet and talk...

YOU DO NOT KNOW ME, YET YOU JUDGE ME. I AM SELF-DESTRUCTIVE, I MESS EVERYTHING THAT IS GOOD FOR ME, AND I KNOW NOT WHY. BUT I SUPPOSE I COULD HAZARD A GUESS... I RAN OUT OF WORDS, THAT WOULD BE BEFFITING OF THE EMOTION, STRANDLING THE CONFINES OF MY MIND. WHAT I SCRIBBLE THUS DOES IT NO JUSTICE. IT IS BUT A SEEKING OF SOME RELIEF, FROM THE UNCEASING POUNDING OF AN IDEA, THAT FIGHTS TO BE PUT INTO WRITING. BUT COME MY FRIENDLY FOE, YOU MUST GIVE ME SOME CREDIT. I HAD YOU LAU...

I am currently reading John Grisham's 'THE PELICAN BRIEF' .Comment? Its a typical Grisham book.Entertaining,unpredictable story line.A good and easy read

I have a problem with men who just keep sneaking glances at you and cannot gather enough courage to just say hello,or something,anything is better than those looks.Those looks are spooky.You are not sure what is going on in the man's head.Is he liking what he is seeing?does he want to tear my clothes off...or is he planning how he can follow me and grab me at some corner in the night as i make my way home or to wherever? or maybe i remind him of the girl who broke his heart...Well,here's wh...

OK.I admit it it was stupid,stupid and desperate.Now he knows i like him and he can play around with my emotions and make a total fool of me.Oh why why did i not just keep my cool and pretend i dont care if he calls or not instead of calling him and asking-You will cringe when i say it..."is there any chance of seeing you today? Oh my God i want to die with shame just thinking about it now,what is wrong with me?! i dont do this. And do you want to know what he said? you will die a thousand s...

I am currently reading James Clavell's "SHOGUN" A world famous Asian saga about a Japan in the 1600 years.There is Death,Romance,Struggle for Power,betrayal and trechery,Bravery,lust....its the perfect story to keep you engrossed til the last page,then you will be up and abuout looking for the next book that continues the saga . Warning-the book is 1152 pages so better get yourself ready for one long sweet ride

CLEMENCY 1. Mildness(esp.of weather) 2.Mercy (esp when punishing someone) The thing is,i have decided to practice clemency from now hence. God,or atleast Jesus(son of God ) taught that we should forgive 49* how many times? which if you ask me,to be truthful,considering human nature,is practically impossible. Do you know any individual who has forgiven any one person some (just) 49 times? show me that individual and i will marry them in a flash(if they will have me...) Myself am willing t...