So.Are you the kind of person who hordes foodstuff? you know,hide them in your drawers,closet etc?Well, i have nothing against you as a person.Its just that i cant quite understand why anybody does that when we are not in a war!! or maybe am a bit ignorant in that department. i might need educationg...but seriously,so you hide the food,question, who are you hiding it from,yourself? or those people you live with-sometimes some people like to reffer to them as Family...so it goes bad coz you fo...

Am currently reading Graham Greene's 'The Third man'. This is a classic thriller based in post war Vienna and its sordid,sinister underworld. Graham Greene is currently in my top five Writers.My favourite book by him so far is 'Travels with my Aunt'. Greene has great conversation and the best intelliget jokes ever.' The Third man is a definate carry around( meaning i take it wherever i go and read wherever i can,in the loo, in the bus, at the Doctor's waiting room,even at an office recep...

I am currently reading James Clavell's "SHOGUN" A world famous Asian saga about a Japan in the 1600 years.There is Death,Romance,Struggle for Power,betrayal and trechery,Bravery,lust....its the perfect story to keep you engrossed til the last page,then you will be up and abuout looking for the next book that continues the saga . Warning-the book is 1152 pages so better get yourself ready for one long sweet ride

CLEMENCY 1. Mildness(esp.of weather) 2.Mercy (esp when punishing someone) The thing is,i have decided to practice clemency from now hence. God,or atleast Jesus(son of God ) taught that we should forgive 49* how many times? which if you ask me,to be truthful,considering human nature,is practically impossible. Do you know any individual who has forgiven any one person some (just) 49 times? show me that individual and i will marry them in a flash(if they will have me...) Myself am willing t...

Do you know what is worse than being stood up? that would surely be his sending an sms-not calling!-sending a message to say he was caught up at work and would not be able to make it that evening and could we make it another day...? But am over that now, today is another day, (i couldnt help letting myself have our usual four hour sms conversations-read flirting last night)) am in real good spirits today what with my hair freshly done-i know am looking HOT!. i am graduating on staurday, tha...

Am going on a blind date-hopefully. He is supposed to call me within the next half hour and am having a creeping feeling that he might not call.For God's sake its embarrasing enough being stood up by someone you have met before.I swear if this guy doesnt call am never going on another blind date,this is my first (might be my first, that is,if he shows..) I know you are wondering how this came to be.Well, i was working in some media house as a reporter and i was forever getting into trouble ...

Ok.I have a question to ask.Why would a man keep making dates with a girl and then keep cancelling them on the last minute? What is wrong with this man?! I have to tell you,i am pissed.This guy keeps flirting with me and setting up dates with me but he never keeps any of them! The day before yesterday we had this lovely conversation by sms and he(on his own accord,without any hinting from me decided to make a date with me for yesterday and i thought finally,this one will come through.Yesterd...

The thing is, i have this friend of mine,a girlfriend,and yesterday she said something to me that i was not able to react to because i wasnt sure which was the best or even the appropriate kind of reaction to give. We have this mutual friend who is male and has several brothers,all younger than him.Now,usually girls positively swoon over him,well,lets call him Tim.Girls are always falling inlove with Tim. Tim has this brother,the last born brother actually who is like 20years old or somethin...

Ever woken up with injuries you cannot explain? ok in my case it was the morning after a few glasses of red wine-EVEN SO...i was not that intoxicated,infact i was quite alright.i got home,had my supper and watched Adrian Monk...Ok lets start at the beginning I was home that morning doing nothing much ,well,i was watching the Godfather movies from 1-3 and having a good time at it,then one of my male pals with whom i have been having certain issues with called to say we should meet and talk...

YOU DO NOT KNOW ME, YET YOU JUDGE ME. I AM SELF-DESTRUCTIVE, I MESS EVERYTHING THAT IS GOOD FOR ME, AND I KNOW NOT WHY. BUT I SUPPOSE I COULD HAZARD A GUESS... I RAN OUT OF WORDS, THAT WOULD BE BEFFITING OF THE EMOTION, STRANDLING THE CONFINES OF MY MIND. WHAT I SCRIBBLE THUS DOES IT NO JUSTICE. IT IS BUT A SEEKING OF SOME RELIEF, FROM THE UNCEASING POUNDING OF AN IDEA, THAT FIGHTS TO BE PUT INTO WRITING. BUT COME MY FRIENDLY FOE, YOU MUST GIVE ME SOME CREDIT. I HAD YOU LAU...

I am currently reading John Grisham's 'THE PELICAN BRIEF' .Comment? Its a typical Grisham book.Entertaining,unpredictable story line.A good and easy read

I have a problem with men who just keep sneaking glances at you and cannot gather enough courage to just say hello,or something,anything is better than those looks.Those looks are spooky.You are not sure what is going on in the man's head.Is he liking what he is seeing?does he want to tear my clothes off...or is he planning how he can follow me and grab me at some corner in the night as i make my way home or to wherever? or maybe i remind him of the girl who broke his heart...Well,here's wh...

OK.I admit it it was stupid,stupid and desperate.Now he knows i like him and he can play around with my emotions and make a total fool of me.Oh why why did i not just keep my cool and pretend i dont care if he calls or not instead of calling him and asking-You will cringe when i say it..."is there any chance of seeing you today? Oh my God i want to die with shame just thinking about it now,what is wrong with me?! i dont do this. And do you want to know what he said? you will die a thousand s...

PEOPLE? its good to be back,i have been unwell and for a few minutes of each day i wasnt sure i would make it,i know you have missed me,i have interesting things to share wuth you and i know you will love it all here's something small... SPRING. I AM FREE, NO LONGER DOMESTICATED, TRAINED TO LIVE LIKE A MONGREL, THAT IS SOMEONE'S IDEA OF A PET. DO YOU NOT SHUDDER AT THE SOUND OF YOUR VOICE, DRIPPING WITH DECEIT AND UNTRUTHS? DO YOU NOT CRINGE A...

OK maybe am abit ignorant but i live in Africa and our T.V channels have been on the United States elections since yesterday and am getting abit worked up.Ok there's nothing wrong with keeping us updated but must we(read i for those who do not agree) be subjected to this torture? i for one do not care who gets into congress,democrats or republicans what good will either serve us ??The United States has never done anybody any good for the simple sake of showing some humanity and we all know it...